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Thursday, September 27, 2012

Define Mentally Abused


i'm so far away from the life i used to live in .
live full of agony . devastated moment. 

not going to whine or babbling .
just to share and seek some moral or lesson from what had happened .

read an article recently .

Mentally Abuse Children .
it's hurt when you're in that same very position .
every detail been written are stupidly similar to your's .

characteristics of childhood abused victim :

We feel guilty when we stand up for ourselves or act in our own best interests.

We deny, minimize or repress our feelings as a result of our traumatic childhoods.

We overreact to change things over which we have no control.

Lie when they don't need to.

Have trouble accepting compliments.

Have trouble having fun since their childhoods were lost, stolen, repressed.

Expect others to just "know what they want." (They can't express it because they were so often disappointed as children that they learned to stop asking for things.)

Constantly seek approval & affirmation.

Sadly ,
i suffer from almost all the characteristics that been stated above and in that article i read before .
kind off annoying 
as if the writer could read me as an open page in a book .

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